Have you noticed that everything in life is not set out in simple straightforward ways? Men for example are weird and women are just plain complicated. Parents don’t get it and children are a pain in the neck. Yet even those neat boxes are often smashed by people who behave in different ways. So as useful as boxes are, lets approach each individual as a mystery waiting for us to solve only by looking for clues by building relationships never assuming we know but enjoying the process to know.
Someone's thoughts may be as deep as the ocean, but if you are smart, you will discover them. (Proverbs 20:5)